When we shed a tear in grief or pain, don’t consider it a loss (of water) but a gain (of space) in your heart. When we hold the tears in, we hold onto the pain and anguish and thoughts of “poor me.” When we cry, we release them into the physical form and out of our physical and mental and spiritual systems.
It is not selfish to cry – it is very selfless for it is a purging and cleansing of that which no longer serves you and that which no longer serves you is that which no longer interferes with your relationships with your neighbors, friends, and lovers. So believe me you are doing everyone a favor to release these negative feelings.
Sometimes you wonder if you will ever stop crying or that you’ve never cried so much – how can this be happening? But I can assure you that all is fine and all is well and tears are in perfect working order for your process of becoming a clearer channel. When the tears go there is more room for love, when the tears go there is more room for compassion, when the tears go there is more room for passion and physical intimacy.
In the past we looked at our partner as someone who would fill a need (or a space within ourselves that we lacked) – some ingredient they could supply. However, these days, as we evolve, we are becoming more complete and balanced and there is a less of need we need to fill. It may not seem that way right now because you are still in the purging phases but I can tell you that the purging is also helping create this balance within: the balance of masculine and feminine energies. It has to do with past lives, it has to do with growing up in this life and what you’ve given away and what you’ve too tight held on to.
Let the levels balance out through purging and new understandings so you can meet your soul mate with everything to offer.
