YOU ARE PERFECT. For right here and right now this is exactly the best place for you; you are in the right health, you are with the right man, you are in the right job. If not, you wouldn’t be HERE NOW. Start playing around in that concept. That is not to say that you won’t later move from that space, change your job and divorce your husband; you just may. However for this NOW moment, let’s start enjoying it and we can do that by wiggling into it (instead of running away from or out of it). Being present is a practice – don’t be disappointed if you find yourself still thinking about the future, your health, the husband, the job . . . but the more time you spend in the present the healthier you’ll be and the more at peace. Soon those other “issues” will resolve themselves (or you will not notice them because you will be so ever present). Remember though, for now you are perfect, so enjoy.
