Where will you be in one year, two years; five? Everyone wonders such questions and feel if they only knew the answers they would feel somehow better or more comforted. But these questions are not easily answered. No one can truly predict an outcome. Life is too messy for that. Let us consider your free will is a factor, and her free will is a factor, and her father’s free will is a factor, and so on and so on. How can we be at our best if we are unsure of what to do; unsure our purpose; unsure of the outcome? Knowing exactly what to do will never happen for you may think in your mind what you plan to do but then at the final seconds, a knee-jerk reaction happens, and you may do something totally out of character, not in your plan of action at all. These decisions and actions and thoughts are all important in life: the process is the key. Are you doing or reacting out of jealousy or greed: what are your intentions? That is what’s important – the process. And do you really think you don’t know your purpose in life? I bet that deep down you do; it is all about you; it is you. Possibly your purpose is to raise your children, help surrogate and love other people’s children, bring the community together, bring humor into life, be a protector, be a saint. Just sit and let everything else go, out of your mind and body, and just sit and breathe. Then say, “My purpose is . . . “ and you will feel it in your gut, or hear it in your mind, or see it in front of your closed eyes. Live through that purpose and everything else will fall into place when it comes to “what to do”. Outcomes are inevitable. And regardless of the outcome, continue . . .
