There is no reason to fear. The future is what you make it so why taint it with fear; and the past is over so why circle fear around something that is dead and gone. Don’t wake that which is at rest. You can do that, you know. Keep thinking of the past and wake it in your mind – but it is all fantasy and backward and over. Less you need forgiveness or a need to grant forgiveness. If that is the case, you can bring it up and live in it a bit: feel it, sense it, cry and scream with it, and at the same time allow the fact that it is an old condition, let that idea seep into your every pore, and allow the process – in whatever way it presented itself; and then allow the ultimate allowing: forgiveness. Ahh – that feels nice. As ye forgive, so you’ll be forgiven. And don’t forget to forgive yourself and your actions and your feelings around the your actions too. Only then can you truly put those times to rest. Another way would be to walk in an overarching umbrella of love and forgiveness. As you walk, your love/forgiveness umbrella would cover all: the present, past and future. But that may take some time to master (to become that master), so while you are working on that, take the time to clean up the past and grant forgiveness – it will bring you closer and closer to the mastership you seek.
